To get an all-round
exposure to life, take out five days — not too many, just five days.
Spend Day One - morning to
evening - with a farmer. Go with him to the farm early morning and see what
he does all day. You will become sensitive towards the environment, towards
food. A third of the food in the world is wasted and thrown. Spending the day
watching the farmer will let us know the hard work and resources that go into
producing the food and we will think twice before wasting it.
Day Two
Spend one day in jail (but without committing a crime). You
will realise that the people we label as criminals and put in prisons, landed
there due to circumstances, due to ignorance. When anger grips a person, he
is not in control of his action. If you ask the most hardened criminal, they
will say, “I didn’t do it. Something came over me and it just happened.” It
will become evident that inside every culprit, there is a victim crying for
help. Compassion will arise in your heart. If you have hatred in your heart
towards others, that will vanish.
Day Three
On the third day, become a school teacher. You will understand
why a guru is needed. Wherever you are in life, there are so many that you
can help and guide. It brings a deep satisfaction within. It’s not that only
those with long hair and beard can be gurus. Everybody can play the role for
at least some people. You don’t really need a special skill to be a guru, you
need compassion. Being a teacher, you can channel that compassion to people.
“I want nothing but my student should progress.” Such unconditional love
comes to our life.
Day Four
Spend the fourth day in a mental institution. Whatever anybody
in a mental hospital says to you, whatever names they call you, you won’t
take it to heart. After spending a day when anybody can say anything to you,
you will develop the strength to face criticism without being shaken. Not
only will you be strong enough to accept all criticism, you will have
compassion for those who criticise you. We get anxious over small matters.
“What does he think about me?” We are shaken and then we react to these
things. You should have courage to give criticism and courage to receive
criticism as well. If we teach our children this, they’ll grow into strong
and stable members of society.
Day Five
Spend one day in the cemetery or funeral home. You will have a
close and intense experience of the impermanence of life. Whatever complaints
you have will vanish. Having the experience that death can come anytime will
change your perspective on life for good.
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